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			<title>Computer Nerds Are People, Too!</title>
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			<dc:creator>Sassy</dc:creator>
			<description>I read this in a Dear Margo Column... found it interesting.. 



are women really that shallow?



and the Star Trek Convention   isn't a bad idea.... although I am also a big believer in Comic Con.... I'm sure the same applies there.... 





DEAR MARGO: I know plenty of men who are great guys with excellent jobs, who nonetheless have a hard time meeting women. Why? Most women pass by us computer nerds not realizing: We are educated; we have money; we are attentive and fun. 



I have  ...</description>
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			<pubDate>Tue, 29 Jan 2008 19:31:16 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title>10 Questions To Slice Through First-Date Ice</title>
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			<dc:creator>Sassy</dc:creator>
			<description>10 Questions To Slice Through First-Date Ice

By Barbara and Michael Jonas

Special to Yahoo! Personals 





Who is most likely to make you laugh?



It isn't a difficult question, however it does require some thought. Now, imagine someone asking you this on your next &quot;first date.&quot; Wouldn't it stimulate just the kind of conversation that would help you get to know each other? Not to mention helping you get over the awkwardness of a first meeting!



Dating is partly a process  ...</description>
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			<pubDate>Mon, 28 Jan 2008 17:58:44 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title>Can't tell how he feels?</title>
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			<dc:creator>Sassy</dc:creator>
			<description>If you have not read John Gray’s book “Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus” you may want to do so now.  Basically Gray identifies the differences between the way men and women communicate.  



You ask how you might tell how your man feels.  And yes, there are other many ways to show emotions.  



Consider the following:



Does he demonstrate through his actions that he cares?    That is, is he kind to you?  Does he like to be around you?    Does he go out of his way to do special  ...</description>
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			<pubDate>Thu, 03 Jan 2008 17:20:13 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title>Dealing with the EX..</title>
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			<dc:creator>Sassy</dc:creator>
			<description>First of all because there is a child from that union your boyfriend and his ex do need to stay in communication, it is the how they communicate that's important.  There are four people involved here [you, your boyfriend, the Ex and the child] and multiple intertwined relationships.  The relationship that concerns you most is of course that between you and your boyfriend.  However, the answer to your challenge may lie in your relationship with the Ex.  Of course it is your boyfriend's responsibility  ...</description>
			<category>Dating and Relationships</category>
			<pubDate>Thu, 03 Jan 2008 17:23:54 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title>Finding Mr Right??</title>
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			<dc:creator>Sassy</dc:creator>
			<description>FIRST…



Take a good look at yourself [ideally take all four of our Awareness Tools] and make an honest self assessment as to your… 

Hopes and dreams [Vision&amp;Values] 

Values and principles you live your life by [Vision&amp;Values] 

Personality strengths &amp; deficits [Basic Type] 

Way of approaching tasks and problems [Focus Tendency] 

Innate preference to lead or be lead in a relationship [Work Mode]



Note all the above in writing [if you use the Awareness Tools you receive  ...</description>
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			<pubDate>Thu, 03 Jan 2008 17:16:51 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title>Do you really listen??</title>
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			<dc:creator>Sassy</dc:creator>
			<description>You aren't listening to me!&quot; How often has your partner snapped back at you with this one?    



What keeps us from listening adequately when engaged in conversation? Lack of time, respect, love or is it just habit? Whatever the reason, not listening interferes with effective, satisfying, rewarding, not to mention productive communication between life and business partners.



Do this simple exercise the next time you talk with your life or business partner:



1. Pay attention to  ...</description>
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			<pubDate>Thu, 03 Jan 2008 17:06:39 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title>SINGLE</title>
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			<dc:creator>Sydney Payne</dc:creator>
			<description><![CDATA[AGAIN!!!
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and motivated to putting all my creative energy into my business and not my cunt!!!   :twisted: 
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website launching this week so watch this space..well not in the relationship topic, but you know what I mean....my empire is ready to grow... :queen:]]></description>
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			<pubDate>Sat, 08 Dec 2007 14:59:09 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title>Do Men Believe in Love at First Sight?</title>
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			<description>Posted by David Zinczenko

on Mon, Sep 24, 2007, 8:50 am PDT 



When you were younger, you probably believed the Meg Ryan movies and the accompanying romantic plots: Of course there's such a thing as love at first sight. 



But now that you've been on more than a few dates, you've noticed the absence of a scriptwriter, cinematographer, hair, makeup, and lighting engineers. That meet-swoon-commit deal only happens in Hollywood, it seems. But consider this: a national survey revealed that  ...</description>
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			<pubDate>Wed, 26 Sep 2007 20:52:38 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title>What's your love type?</title>
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			<dc:creator>Sassy</dc:creator>
			<description>What's your love type?



According to relationship wizard Helen Fisher, PhD, there are four personality types -- Explorer, Builder, Negotiator and Director. She says that once you know who you are, you'll know why you're attracted to certain people. You'll also see who might make for a good match (not to mention, who you might want to offer that rain check).



We're each a mix of all four of Helen Fisher's relationship categories, but we express some traits more regularly than others. For  ...</description>
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			<pubDate>Wed, 14 Nov 2007 16:37:00 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title>5 Ways to Keep Your Man From Straying</title>
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			<dc:creator>Sassy</dc:creator>
			<description>Posted by David Zinczenko

on Tue, Sep 11, 2007, 10:58 am PDT 



The biggest faith-keepers, of course, will be his own sense of morality, loyalty, and commitment. Beyond those, however, are certain tipping-points in relationships that make men more likely to play home games, rather than ones on the road.



1. Circle the calendar.



Part of the reason men stray is because they're searching for that rush of excitement - those things that satisfy their pleasure centers in the brain. It's  ...</description>
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			<pubDate>Fri, 14 Sep 2007 19:44:03 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title>Do You Pull Together — or Apart?</title>
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			<dc:creator>Sassy</dc:creator>
			<description>1. Your partner storms into the house and slams the door. He's obviously had a bad day. You: 



 a. Glare at him or her, avoid altogether or get angry — and let him or her know how you feel. 

 b. Don’t get upset; you simply ask if he or she wants to talk about it. 



2. You and your live-in love have been watching an extremely depressing segment on the evening news. You: 



 a. Silently watch 

 b. Argue over each other’s interpretation of events 

 c. Cuddle and talk about what  ...</description>
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			<pubDate>Mon, 17 Sep 2007 20:10:14 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title>Do You Expect Too Much From Your Relationship?</title>
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			<dc:creator>Sassy</dc:creator>
			<description>Do You Expect Too Much From Your Relationship? 

Posted Tue, Nov 13, 2007, 12:28 pm PST 



We all deserve to find people who connect with us, who care for us, who make us laugh, who drive us crazy (in a good way), and who make us feel more excited than a popcorn kernel in a microwave. 



Of course, we should all strive for all five qualities, not settle for two or three of the total. That said, many of us have unfair expectations of what relationships are supposed to be like. 



Blame  ...</description>
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			<pubDate>Wed, 14 Nov 2007 21:41:46 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title>Dilemma</title>
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			<dc:creator>Sydney Payne</dc:creator>
			<description>Ok so lets throw this into the arena.



I wont insult your intelligence and say &quot;my friend&quot; because you are all capable of working out Im talking about myself.



before I was involved with Himself I had an internet friendship with a man, probably known to most of you, on myspace another rapper actually. What is it with these artists.



we spoke every night for over a year and we got on really well. last year on my trip to LA we spoke daily on the fone and met up and had the most  ...</description>
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			<pubDate>Sun, 07 Oct 2007 15:47:40 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title>Sheesh... Now I've heard of everything.. Adulty.. Affairs 10</title>
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			<dc:creator>Sassy</dc:creator>
			<description>Web Service Gives Alibis for Adulterers



Sep 12, 8:20 AM (ET)



By JENNY BARCHFIELD



PARIS (AP) - Looking to get away for a weekend fling without getting caught? A new French company provides would-be adulterers with custom-made excuses that help take the danger of discovery out of cheating.



Founded six months ago by former private eye Regine Mourizard, Web-based Ibila can cook up invites to phony weekend seminars, fake emergency phone calls from work, invitations to nonexistent  ...</description>
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			<pubDate>Wed, 12 Sep 2007 19:09:17 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title>Indecent proposal...</title>
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			<dc:creator>Sassy</dc:creator>
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			<pubDate>Mon, 17 Sep 2007 21:01:25 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title>Racy pics of your man (or woman's) last lover...</title>
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			<dc:creator>Sassy</dc:creator>
			<description><![CDATA[You find the pictures.. they are pretty hot pics... but not of you.. of his or her last lover.. 
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			<pubDate>Mon, 17 Sep 2007 19:57:31 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title>Saying &amp;quot;I love you&amp;quot; in Code</title>
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			<dc:creator>Sassy</dc:creator>
			<description>Whatever your secret code is, speaking a private language doesn't just give you two a charge — it actually has the power to strengthen your bond. &quot;Public displays of commitment — such as having a signal at a party to let each other know you're bored and want to leave — are better predictors of a couple's longevity and stability than public displays of affection, according to a recent study,&quot; says therapist Pat Love, coauthor of the upcoming book How to Improve Your Marriage Without  ...</description>
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			<pubDate>Wed, 12 Sep 2007 20:37:41 GMT</pubDate>
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